Curry. As in … "curry"

It takes but a tiny gesture to turn a mom's frown upside-down.
When I got back from Stop & Shop this evening, I checked my email and lo! son Kevin had sent me a summary of his weekend at college so far. He already has a posse of friends, mostly girls (no raised eyebrows; Kevin is one of those guys with tons of girl friends, as opposed to girlfriends), and has gotten to know guys on his dorm floor. Says he has been busy every minute. And, so sweet: He assured me he is choosing a healthy diet. "I'm actually eating an apple as we speak."

A twisting, bumpy high school path brought Kevin to Curry, a small private college in Milton, Mass., seven miles from downtown Boston. He applied there almost as an afterthought, in February. We visited in April on Accepted Students Day and liked what we saw, including small classes, a very active and congenial Communications Department (his probable major), and lots of support for students with learning disabilities and ADD. Also, a beautiful campus.


We arrived Friday morning at said campus for freshman move-in. The weather gods blessed us with a crisp, sunny day and low humidity, and a team of burly student-athletes quickly transferred Kevin's bags and duffels to his new home. His window is on the first floor at far right.


I was happy to learn that the bathroom is one door away and the unit's Resident Assistant (upperclass student), an affable guy named Chris, lives directly across the hall. The room itself is small but efficient. Guys have so much less STUFF than girls, anyway.




Yes, I miss my youngest child. I even miss the sight of him sprawled on the couch in front of the television. I miss his dry sense of humor and his compassion. But he's only 55 minutes away. It's Kevin's turn to start the next chapter of his life, this time on his own. The kid is all right. And his mom will be, too.

6 Comments:
Big love to you during this big change.
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helenjane, at Sun Aug 29, 10:15:00 PM EDT
What a gorgeous campus! Best of luck to Kevin -- and to you -- as he starts this next phase of his life.
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bozoette, at Mon Aug 30, 11:31:00 AM EDT
Such a nice post, Anne. I was just missing you and thought I would check in. Hope to see you soon!
XO,
Juli
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JM, at Tue Aug 31, 04:40:00 PM EDT
Beautiful campus, beautiful writing, and you can't beat that gorgeous blue sky!
By
r_weeks, at Tue Aug 31, 08:23:00 PM EDT
Thanks for checking in on me. Congratulations on this transition- you sound like you're handling it very graciously.
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Jo Julia, at Sat Sep 11, 09:09:00 PM EDT
Beautiful post.
I especially liked the bookend pictures. There's something about sailboats that to me represents hopes of fulfilled dreams.
Kevin does a good job of hold back his tears, but he can't fool me...
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rabbi neil fleischmann, at Tue Sep 14, 09:09:00 PM EDT
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